How to Talk to Children About Your Divorce

One of the most significant concerns that couples with children face when they are approaching divorce is how to tell their children about the impending divorce.  I generally suggest that they consult with a professional counselor for guidance, and I frequently meet and speak with therapists so that I can provide my clients with a…

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What is Divorce Mediation?

Divorce mediation is an alternative process for getting divorced rather than hiring attorneys and fighting in court.  Traditionally a divorcing couple would each hire an attorney, file a Divorce Complaint at the local courthouse, and the battle would begin.  This battle could take years and cost thousands of dollars, however, when a couple chooses divorce…

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Calculating Alimony in New Jersey and Pennsylvania

There are significant differences and similarities in the law on alimony in New Jersey and Pennsylvania. The law in New Jersey is more presumptive of an award of alimony than it is in Pennsylvania.  The court in New Jersey is more likely to equitably distribute the parties’ property equally and then order a more generous…

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Obama’s DOMA Decision Deconstructed

Two weeks ago I took a GLBT continuing legal education course in order to be better prepared to mediate same sex divorce and separation issues.  As a result, I became much more familiar with DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act) and it’s significance.  This is the federal law that prohibits marriage between same sex couples.  It…

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