The 5 Do’s and Don’ts of Divorce

DIVORCE DO’S Get educated—empower yourself to make your own decisions. Stay focused on what’s important.  Don’t spend thousands to save $100. Be generous with your actions and decisions regarding your children. If you are flexible and reasonable, you will get through this difficult stage of your life and begin to transition into your next chapter.  Eventually…

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New Credit Rules – Household Income No Longer Counts

This week I learned about a recent change in the law that will affect divorcing couples’ credit and their ability to move forward financially.  In a nutshell, as of October 1, 2011, instead of household income, only individual income will be considered for establishing credit.  This means that a stay at home mom is going…

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Why Choose Divorce Mediation?

As a rule the public generally thinks of the divorce process as a litigated divorce—two parties going to court until the matter is concluded either by the decision of a judge or by the parties settling things somewhere down the line.  Unfortunately this process takes a long time, costs a lot of money and most…

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How to Talk to Children About Your Divorce

One of the most significant concerns that couples with children face when they are approaching divorce is how to tell their children about the impending divorce.  I generally suggest that they consult with a professional counselor for guidance, and I frequently meet and speak with therapists so that I can provide my clients with a…

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What is Divorce Mediation?

Divorce mediation is an alternative process for getting divorced rather than hiring attorneys and fighting in court.  Traditionally a divorcing couple would each hire an attorney, file a Divorce Complaint at the local courthouse, and the battle would begin.  This battle could take years and cost thousands of dollars, however, when a couple chooses divorce…

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