New Jersey Divorce
The DROP (Deferred Retirement Option Plan) Loophole
We’ve all been hearing about the DROP controversy in Philadelphia. (It’s happening in New Jersey as well.) Well, what is it and what’s the latest? DROP stands for Deferred Retirement Option Plan. What it has turned into is a loophole for city employees. According to the Cabrini College Locquitor, “Elected officials are considered city employees…
Read MorePersonality Assessment Sheds Light on Divorce Conflict
On Tuesday I had the good fortune to be invited to an exceptional learning opportunity. We learned from business powerhouse Shawn Kent Hayashi about communication styles and workplace motivators. The participants were women with amazing and interesting stories. We all took a preliminary assessment before the conference. The information which is gleaned from these…
Read MoreHow to Talk to Children About Your Divorce
One of the most significant concerns that couples with children face when they are approaching divorce is how to tell their children about the impending divorce. I generally suggest that they consult with a professional counselor for guidance, and I frequently meet and speak with therapists so that I can provide my clients with a…
Read MoreWhat is Divorce Mediation?
Divorce mediation is an alternative process for getting divorced rather than hiring attorneys and fighting in court. Traditionally a divorcing couple would each hire an attorney, file a Divorce Complaint at the local courthouse, and the battle would begin. This battle could take years and cost thousands of dollars, however, when a couple chooses divorce…
Read MoreCalculating Alimony in New Jersey and Pennsylvania
There are significant differences and similarities in the law on alimony in New Jersey and Pennsylvania. The law in New Jersey is more presumptive of an award of alimony than it is in Pennsylvania. The court in New Jersey is more likely to equitably distribute the parties’ property equally and then order a more generous…
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