When deciding whether to proceed with a divorce, ask yourself whether your issues are what I call ‘roommate issues’. If you still love each other and the bricks between you have piled up so that leaving the cap off the toothpaste is exacerbated to world war III, let’s see whether a therapist can help you topple that wall. If that is not your issue, please know that divorce may be harder than you think. If you want to make sure that you don’t make the same mistake choosing the wrong person as your partner in the future, the best advice I have found is to take your time. Take time for yourself to make sure you don’t marry the same person with a different face.
The article 11 Questions to Ask Before Getting a Divorce provides some insight as to what questions you should ask before getting divorced.