While divorce often feels like a loss as you are going through it, you may also work on rediscovering who you were before things went off track, who you have become, or who you want to be on the other side of the divorce process.  There are several very specific steps outlined in this article…

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These are fabulous suggestions for moving forward after divorce.   1.  You are allowed to grieve.  It is almost impossible not to regardless of whether you were the initiator.   2.  Prioritize your children’s future.   3.  Get on top of running your financially independent household.  That doesn’t mean you are not receiving or paying…

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Make Sure You Are Not Making These Huge Divorce Mistakes

It can be so hard to be strong when you are going through a divorce.  It is the time you most want to wallow.  There is time for wallowing on a Saturday afternoon, but you also must keep your head and your wits about you while going through a divorce.  The article below succinctly lists…

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Questions to Ask Before Getting Divorced

When deciding whether to proceed with a divorce, ask yourself whether your issues are what I call ‘roommate issues’.  If you still love each other and the bricks between you have piled up so that leaving the cap off the toothpaste is exacerbated to world war III, let’s see whether a therapist can help you…

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A common theme when approaching divorce is fear. Of course there is fear of the unknown, but what about the fear that results from spousal threats? The BEST OF list of COMMONLY HEARD THREATS: “I will tell the court that you—had an affair, use anti-anxiety medication, have a couple of glasses of wine in a…

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