New Credit Rules – Household Income No Longer Counts

This week I learned about a recent change in the law that will affect divorcing couples’ credit and their ability to move forward financially.  In a nutshell, as of October 1, 2011, instead of household income, only individual income will be considered for establishing credit.  This means that a stay at home mom is going…

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Why Choose Divorce Mediation?

As a rule the public generally thinks of the divorce process as a litigated divorce—two parties going to court until the matter is concluded either by the decision of a judge or by the parties settling things somewhere down the line.  Unfortunately this process takes a long time, costs a lot of money and most…

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The DROP (Deferred Retirement Option Plan) Loophole

We’ve all been hearing about the DROP controversy in Philadelphia.  (It’s happening in New Jersey as well.)  Well, what is it and what’s the latest?  DROP stands for Deferred Retirement Option Plan.  What it has turned into is a loophole for city employees.   According to the Cabrini College Locquitor, “Elected officials are con­sidered city employees…

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Personality Assessment Sheds Light on Divorce Conflict

On Tuesday I had the good fortune to be invited to an exceptional learning opportunity.  We learned from business powerhouse Shawn Kent Hayashi about communication styles and workplace motivators.  The participants were women with amazing and interesting stories.   We all took a preliminary assessment before the conference.  The information which is gleaned from these…

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How to Talk to Children About Your Divorce

One of the most significant concerns that couples with children face when they are approaching divorce is how to tell their children about the impending divorce.  I generally suggest that they consult with a professional counselor for guidance, and I frequently meet and speak with therapists so that I can provide my clients with a…

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