I love this article because it encapsulates my pet peeves. Remember that if you “bash your ex” or soon to be ex, then you are criticizing 50% of your child. The parent who does not speak ill of the other parent will ‘win’ in the end as your child will ‘get it’ when they get older and appreciate you for it. Also remember they are your CHILDREN, not your friend. They are not the receptacle of your adult issues and concerns. Let them be CHILDREN.